Saturday, May 8, 2010

Team Jillian





Dear Friends and Family,

I’d like to introduce you to one of my very best friends. Her name is Jillian (aka “Sissy”) and she’s 2½ years old. She lives surrounded by love and laughter at home with her twin brother Jackson (aka “Chico”), her three smart, beautiful and funny older sisters Jayda, Julia and Jenna, and her parents Jayson and Joanna.


Even though we aren’t actually related by birth, we fell in love with each other the moment we first met when Mark and I first went to visit her Mommy in the hospital when she was born. Now it warms my heart to know that she calls me “Auntie”, and I hope she looks forward to our weekly play dates as much as I do.

She’s a happy, curious, affectionate, fun-loving “girly-girl” that enjoys playing with her brother, playing hide & seek, singing, dancing, mani-pedi’s, yoga, taking bubble baths, playing dress-up, pillow fights, flowers, reading books and helping Auntie cook. Another favorite game is to wait patiently on the bench by the front door with her eyes covered, telling Chico to “shh!shh!shh!” when she hears Uncle Mark coming home from work, only to yell, “SURPRISE!!!” as Uncle opens the door and she jumps into his arms with a giggle! Somehow, the surprise seems to work every time. 


On April 14th, she was diagnosed with Type 1, or juvenile, diabetes. From that day forward, the carefree, happy-go-lucky childhood we had hope she would enjoy disappeared - only to be replaced by a new reality. Instead of joining her brother here at our home for our weekly visit, they were separated for the first time ever as she spent the next few days at Valley Children’s Hospital with her mommy and daddy as they all learned how to count carbs and decipher all the other intricacies required in managing this condition. She and her family now face a new, strict daily regimen committed to scrupulous attention to everything she eats, followed by frequent finger pokes to monitor her blood sugar levels followed by insulin injections as needed to keep her glucose in check.

Being the resilient, fiercely independent little woman-child that she is, she has adapted to these new circumstances with her usual determination and bravery. When faced with any challenge, she finds a way to conquer it herself. I honestly can’t remember ever hearing her say, “I can’t”, without a request for help – but only when absolutely necessary. She can’t fix this by herself. She needs our help.

On May 22nd, Uncle Mark and I will be joining Team Jillian in the JDRF Walk to Cure Diabetes. I urge you to help us in this worthy cause in any way your heart leads. Whether it is by joining us in the walk, or making a donation of any size (including corporate sponsorship for those of you so inclined), every bit of support you choose to offer is needed and greatly appreciated.

My dream for Jillian and all others like her is that one day there will be a cure for this condition that will allow her the freedom once more to live a life unencumbered by the needles, rules and regulations that come with living with diabetes. Great strides have been made in research, and there is every hope that this can happen within our lifetime, and most certainly within Jillian’s lifetime. With our help, that day can come sooner rather than later. Together we can make a bigger difference faster.

Please go to: http://walk.jdrf.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=extranet.personalpage&confirmid=87676829 and help us create a NEW reality for Jillian and all others like her.

If the above link doesn’t work for you, simply go to:

http://walk.jdrf.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=walk.home
Be sure and select Team Jillian in California to assure your donation counts for Jillian’s team.

With much love and gratitude,
Auntie Valarie (and Uncle Mark, too!)

Friday, May 7, 2010

Beauty lives within ...

Woman to woman ~

I want to share this insightful video that I recently stumbled across from Jean Kilbourne. Wouldn't the world would be better served if we raised our daughters with the strength of heart to challenge the stereotypes that our society seems intent on force-feeding upon us?  Let us teach them that we must first know who we really are at the core of our existence in order to see beyond the illusion of external circumstances and opinions, and acknowledge that true beauty is simply a reflection of the inward condition of our heart and the peace of mind that comes from knowing we're a divine reflection of the One that created us. Let us teach our daughters well by living within this truth ourselves. And what a wonderful world this would be if the message would be taught to our sons as well ... but that's a whole other post!



I think this poem says it all:

The Beauty of a Woman

The beauty of a woman
isn't the clothes she wears,
The figure that she carries,
or the way she combs her hair.


The beauty of a woman
must be seen from her eyes;
Because that's the doorway to her heart
the place where love resides.

The beauty of a woman
isn't in a facial mole;
But true beauty in a woman
is reflected in her soul.

It's the caring that she cares to give,
the passion that she shows:
And the beauty of a woman
with the passing years only grows.

(Authorship has been variously attributed to either 
Maya Angelou, Ralph Fenger, Audrey Hepburn & 
Sam Levenson)

Ciao for now!
xoxox









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